can someone please explain to me why harry ended up with ginny anyway i admit i've only seen the movies but i've met people who've red them. it just seems that one minute shes a damsel in destress the harrys in love. I'm not saying ginnys been giving him love potions but i just feel i've missed somthing
Ginny mainly suffers from being Out of Focus; she is hinted to be popular and tough and talented, but apparently becomes shy around Harry, so these comes off as Informed Attributes. Put another way, we're told that she's not shallow, but their relationship comes off that way
During the first 3 books she was very shy around Harry because she had a crush on him. In the 5th book while Harry was falling for Cho Chang, Hermione spoke to Ginny at some point and told her to move on so she did and started going out with other guys. It's mostly around these books - 4,5 and 6 - is where she's hinted as popular, tough and talented when she isn't distracted by Harry. In the 6th book Harry starts to notice Ginny in a different light than just 'Ron's little sister' and starts having romantic feelings for her but Ginny is dating Dean. However they break up and I guess the crush never really went away because Ginny returned Harry's feelings when he kissed her.